“Pain Is Beauty”: Christian Louboutin “So Kate” 120MM Pumps Review

    After being sold out in my size every time I went to purchase them I’ve finally caught the highly sought after Christian Louboutin classic patent leather black “So Kate” pumps. I went in for the nude color but they … Continue reading

HAPPY 2 YEAR ANNIVERSARY TO US!!

Today marks 2 years of me building and branding Stilettos N’ Hiphop. I have came such a long way I’ve allowed some personal things to distract me from my work but I can honestly say I am blessed and I … Continue reading

New To The Single Life? Here’s Your Post Break Up Style Guide

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Most likely now that you’re newly single you’re A. sad,B. hurt, C. upset, or D. all the above. You thought this person was different you saw yourself with this person for the rest of your life. You seen yourself married to him with a beautiful ring, a beautiful home decorated like something out of a catalogue where the lawn looks as if it was on the cover of a spring issue of H0me & Gardens magazine, and 3 beautiful non crying obedient sent from the heavens babies. You thought this person would change or your relationship would get better after many years and overcoming many obstacles. Or maybe you thought he would finally put you first, take a few nights away from the guys and spend a nice romantic date night with you. Maybe you felt he would begin to make time for you in his busy life of indulging in his office or out of town for business. Take a tropical vacation with you no cell phones, no laptop, just genuine quality time and a cocktail. But oh well he didn’t change and sad part he probably never would’ve. It’s his loss he didn’t see how amazing of a woman you are. So Chin up it’s time to MOVE ON.

 

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IT’S OKAY TO CRY AT THE BEGINNING|| Victoria Secret Cotton Pajama $52, Marc Blackwell Southern Hemisphere White Wine Glass $75, Talenti Caramel Sea Salt Gelato

Of course, when you go threw a fresh break up it cuts deep and you want to mourn but before you make reservations for one at Ruth Chris to order a dinner portion of lobster mac and cheese extra lobster topped with fresh parmesan cheese and 3 glasses of riesling. Sobbing in your best friend’s lap with a half gallon of Gelato carmel with salted peanut flavor and boring them to death with your break stories and all the things you don’t understand about what went wrong. Walking around in your favorite cotton pj’s hair in a messy bun and no make up playing your sad r&b break up songs. How about you skip that phase and look at the brighter picture and celebrate your new found freedom to explore true happiness! Let’s prepare for a new chapter a fresh beginning!

Where do you begin do you ask? How about we skip all the living and learning cliche’s and not complicate it. Do everything you missed out on when you were in a relationship. Catch up on some girl time with your friends. Have a girls night out like a chic dinner with your close girlfriends that you didn’t have time for because you were so stuck on working out your relationship. But don’t bring up your ex he’s the past and no one else cares about him anymore he doesn’t exist in your personal life so don’t make him a personal topic.

 

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HAVE A GIRLS NIGHT OUT DINNER|| maison margiela stretch-jersey body suit $430, neil barrett mini a-line skirt $489, chanel lambskin quilted boy flap black medium $6,298, passiana crystal waterfal bib necklace $45, Christian Louboutin Daffodil Black Pumps $773

Another cure for the fresh break up bug is a night out on the town with your best friend! But before you go out that night be sure to go give yourself a day of pampering to get all of that grey gloom of sadness and break up off. Your skin is going to need that glow from Vitamin D so go get yourself a Vitamin D facial and exfoliate when you get home with your favorite sugar scrub and moisturize with your fruitiest body butter. Then that night beat your makeup to the gawds, throw on your sexiest Herve Bandage dress, do your hair in a sleek sexy pony tail or beach waves, nice sexy strappy sandal heels your, sexiest dior or gucci guilty perfume, and go out to your favorite lounge and dance the night away. Ready for a little a boo? Not a Beau (bae) but just someone to kiss with no strings attached find one and invest in some sexy lingerie with detachable strings ha ha. You deserve it. But the best way to curve a break up is to workout get that body back right and make him see what he missed and can’t ever have again. Go buy you a few chic and poppin nike workout gear and sneakers and go burn the sadness away.

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PAMPER YOURSELF BEFORE YOUR NIGHT OUT || Dr Dennis Gross Vitamin D Serum oil $65, beautycounter glow sugar scrub goop $38, Miss Dior Eau de Toilette 1.7 oz $75,    The body Shop Raspberry Body Butter $10, Gucci Guilty Perfume  $77

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HIT A NIGHT ON THE TOWN WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND || Herve Leger V neck Bandage Dress $1,050, Christian Louboutin Otrot 120 Fringed color block suede sandals $1,295, Louis Vuitton Sunset Boulevard Vernis Leather Clutch $560, Tiffany & Co Rope Knot Tassel Gold Bracelet $4,570, Tiffany & Co. .71 carats Diamond Platinum Stud Earrings $3,200

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FIND SOMEONE TO KISS & TAKE YOUR MIND OFF THINGS|| Agent Provocateur Demelza Bra $250, Agent Provocateur Demelza Suspender $330, Agent Provocateur Demelza Brief $150, Jimmy Choo Black Suede Pointy Toe Pumps $595, Tiffany & Co. .71 carats Diamond Platinum Stud Earrings $3,200, black knee high stockings $5.61

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WORKOUT & KEEP GETTING SEXY|| Women’s Nike Pro Classic Padded Bra $40, Nike Pro 3″ Compression Shorts $28, Mio Fuse Heart Rate Training Band $149, Nike Women’s Free 5.0+ Running Shoe $80

 You are going to still feel some type of way if you see him or hear about him and a new found love interest but don’t worry about it too much or let it get to you too much because you are amazing. The person who is for you and believe me their are so many men who would love a woman like you in his life who will acknowledge your greatness. Who will treat you like the queen that you are who will send you your favorite roses just because its Saturday or your favorite chocolate covered strawberries from edible arrangements because he appreciate the sweetness you embody as a woman. Who will encourage you and support you in all of your dreams and endeavors. Who will buy you the newly released christian louboutin fall pumps because he thought it would look good on you. Or text you randomly to wear something nice tonight because he’s made reservations at your favorite restaurant. HE’S OUT THERE & you will meet him as soon as you’re ready! But until that time comes work on being a better you making yourself happy. What’s the best part of being single its now all about you and no one else and you’re now able to be stingy with your time. Your fabulous and single baby enjoy it

 

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RETAIL THERAPY IS ALWAYS NEEDED|| T by Alexander Wang Back-Cutout Bandeau Jumpsuit $595, Giuseppe Zanotti Open Metal Circle flat sandal $298, Givenchy Medium Antigona Black Leather Bag $2,225

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GET YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE BACK|| Tom Ford Stretch-denim Shirt $1,190, Rag & Bone Distressed Denim Skirt $132.50, Vintage Chanel CC Gold Quilted Large Brooch $495, Rolex Lady- DatejustChristian Louboutin Follies Strass Pointy Toe Pump $1,195, Chanel Vintage Safety Pin Brooch $545

 

Jane Birkin Asks Hermès To Remove Her Name From The Legendary Birkin Bag!

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Melissa McCarthy Debut’s Her New Fashion Line!

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Beyoncé’s Beach Body Bombshell Waves & Bright Stained Lipgloss

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After giving us all kind of life these days with edgy high ponytails and contoured to the makeup Gods Bey has returned to her ever so classic all american bombshell beach waves denim jeans and a white T shirt last night photoed leaving her office in New York City. Her glowing radiant skin and bold stained bright lips meshed so well with her untamed effortless beach waves. I absolutely love when she looks so casually put together with out any effort taken place.

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Wyclef Jean Axed Donald Trump As A Friend With The F Bomb & Middle Finger

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